
When should I send out our wedding invitations?
How Far In Advance Should You Send Your Wedding Invitations?
Setting the date is just the beginning of your wedding journey. Amidst venue tours and dress fittings, one task quietly takes centre stage: deciding when to send those all-important wedding invitations. In the swirl of planning, timing your invitations correctly ensures your loved ones are there to celebrate with you and makes your day feel truly special from the very start. Whether you’re planning a grand celebration in the English countryside or an intimate ceremony in the heart of the city, understanding the ideal invitation timeline is key for an organised, memorable occasion.
Why Timing Matters for Wedding Invitations
Wedding invitations set the tone for your event and provide guests with the information they need to share in your big day. Send them too soon, and details might be forgotten; too late, and calendars could fill up. The right timing not only makes your guests feel valued but also gives you the space to personalise your invitations—creating that sense of excitement and anticipation you’re hoping for.
At Paper Willow, our distinctive, hand-painted invitation designs mean you can weave your personal story into every send-out. Getting the timing right ensures your stationery shines, while your planning stays perfectly on track.
The Essential Wedding Stationery Timeline
One of the most frequently asked questions by couples is: how far in advance should you send wedding invitations? In the UK, the answer depends on several factors, including your wedding date and whether many of your guests are travelling from afar.
Save the Dates: Securing Your Guest List
Before the formal invitations go out, consider sending save the dates. These are usually sent 6 to 12 months prior to your wedding, especially if your date falls during peak season or requires travel and accommodation.
Save the dates are a gentle nudge, ensuring your loved ones reserve your special day well ahead of time. Designs can be as creative or understated as you wish, setting an inspiration for what’s to come.
Formal Invitations: The Heart of Your Wedding Correspondence
So, how far in advance should you send your wedding invitations? The golden window for UK weddings is typically 3 to 6 months before the wedding. This gives guests enough time to RSVP, make travel arrangements, and clear their diaries. If your wedding falls during a busy holiday period or in a destination requiring travel planning, 6 months is ideal. For local, off-peak weddings, 3 to 4 months’ notice is generally sufficient.
- For most UK weddings: 3 to 6 months before
- For destination or summer weddings: at least 6 months before
Evening Invitations and Last-Minute Guests
If you plan to invite some guests solely to the evening festivities, evening invitations can be sent slightly later, though ideally no less than 6 to 8 weeks before the big day. If unexpected changes require inviting someone last-minute, a personal phone call followed by a prompt invitation is always appreciated.
The Benefits of a Thoughtful Timeline
Getting your timing right does more than ensure guest availability. It also leaves space to create truly personalised wedding invitations, whether you envision illustrated venue motifs, bespoke floral elements, or delightful interactive details like wedding timelines. With time on your side, you can collaborate with designers to infuse your stationery with individuality, reflecting your story and the ambiance of your celebration.
A well-considered timeline helps with related stationery too—like RSVPs, menu selections, transport information, and more. Each piece plays a role in your day running smoothly.
Choosing the Right Wedding Stationery for Your Timeline
When you work with a specialist stationer like Paper Willow, you gain access to a full suite of wedding stationery invitations, coordinated on-the-day elements, and a friendly, personalised service. This means you can:
- Customise every detail, from hand-drawn illustrations to wording
- Match invitations with details for the ceremony and reception
- Consult with graphic designers to bring bespoke ideas to life
Building a cohesive collection early helps streamline your planning—ensuring invitations, save the dates, and thank you cards all reflect your unique style.
Tips to Stay Organised
- Start early: Give yourself six to eight weeks for the design process, especially if you want bespoke or intricate invitations.
- Confirm guest data: Collect up-to-date addresses before ordering.
- Consider design time: Hand-painted or illustrated invites need extra lead time.
- Plan for postage: Allow time for posting and possible delays, especially for international guests.
- Order keepsakes: Don’t forget wedding keepsakes, such as bespoke wedding timelines and thank you cards, for guests to treasure.
A Hassle-Free, Memorable First Impression
Sending your invitations at the right time is more than tradition—it’s an act of consideration that resonates with your guests and elevates your wedding planning journey. An organised approach leaves room for creativity, allowing you to collaborate on personalised designs and ensure every detail feels authentic to you as a couple.
At Paper Willow, our artistry and attention to detail mean your invitation suite will not only impress but also serve as an heirloom for years to come. Take the time to plan your stationery timeline, and you’ll be rewarded with a seamless, joyful start to your wedding story.
For unforgettable, bespoke stationery that mirrors your vision, explore our collections and let us help you make that lasting first impression.